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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I still kinda want to hot tub cause I haven’t used it at my apartment in months. I’ll probably just mention wine and the movie, and then I’ll text her later also saying “hey, bring a swimsuit if you want to hot tub, if not that’s cool too (:”
[–]09piercd 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You should lead with the hot tub , then remind her she’ll need a swimsuit . Kinda seems like you just wanna see her naked when you lead with “bring a swimsuit”
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’ve decided I’m not going to mention the hot tub at all and will just text her later saying “hey I also have a hot tub at my apartment, so if you want to use it make sure to bring a swimsuit, if not that’s cool though(:”
[–]09piercd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Turns out she works tonight :(
[–]09piercd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Unlucky man . She give you another day instead ?
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I said we could hangout tomorrow and she said she was down, but I’m sad because she said she is going to a movie with her family at 10. I work till 7 so we only have a few hours but yeah
[–]09piercd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least you’re hanging out for a bit G
[–]ThatGuy_Nick9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I say forget the hot tub and let her discover the hot tub at your place and use that to score a second date. Unless you want the hot tub to be the main reason for the meetup this time then lead with that
[–]Automatic_Beautiful9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's not exceptionally rude. If you want anything from her just ask.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I hope she says yes :/
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just say hot tub.. she might just wanna jump in without swimsuit ;)
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol it’s at a apartment complex so I doubt that😂
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[–]Canadian-Seductioner 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you want to play it safe, ask if she wants to have some takeout and wine at yours. Then if she says yes, say "oh and I also have a hot tub in case you wanna go for a dip btw". Keep it casual and nonchalant. Only meeting to watch a movie is already suggestive. Dinner is less so.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was planning on trying to emphasize the movie more then anything else. I guess I can suggest takeout to
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Up to you and how suggestive you want to be. Just providing you with a safer option that is low risk. Watching a movie implies sex, takeout doesn't. Throwing in the hot tub comment after she says yes to takeout gives you a good indication of whether she's dtf or not.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just ask her to come over and watch a movie, she'll get the point.
[–]bojackhhorseman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That face when I don't have a hot bikini clad girlfriend to hot tub with me, and I like hot tubs. :(
[–]JackTheRipper_17 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Pretty good! Go ahead! good luck
[–]JackTheRipper_17 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We'll get em next time
Update: she said she works tonight :(. I suggested tomorrow and she said yes but that she has to go to a movie with her family at 10. I’m going to try and get off work early and hangout with her around 7
[–]jeongmidani 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. That’s how I did it. Worked, 10/10
[–]ChubbaChubzz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Checks out ✅
[–]mishaxz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget to mention you have popcorn too.. or if you want to step up your game, nachos
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Ask her to come over and play board games. Play a game, make a move, and score.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Read my update. I’m going to text her tomorrow a few hours before I get off work if she still wants to hangout. If she does I’ll suggest getting some takeout and then watching a movie. She said she is going to a movie at 10 with her family, so I understand if she bails tbh since I don’t get off work till 7
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Gotta make it quick then lol
Yeah, I’ll still ask. I don’t necessarily want to “score” I just want to hangout with her. I’ve always been more of a relationship person and I want it to develop into something more.(though I wouldn’t mind scoring either lol)
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Always try. Physical attraction is important no matter the relationship. If it’s a first date don’t mind it. But if you’re not scoring by the 3 or the 5th at the latest, there’s a pretty good chance she’s just not into you, which is okay.
True, I mean we made out on our first date, so I’m expecting we’ll do that again. She’s already told me through text and I quote “omg, you’re so attractive btw”
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