Have a genuine interest in her life before aspiring to get her in bed.

This means you have to ask questions and then tell her how you feel about it.

If you don't know what questions to ask, then you have to move your focus out of her beautiful eyes, and sexy cleavage and look at her as a human being.

Don't be afraid to chime in with your own comments on what she says, ESPECIALLY when you disagree with something.

Adding your own insights is CRITICAL. You don't want to be seen as that friend she just runs along too when she needs to bitch and moan. If you want things to be sexual, you need to challenger her.

Example:

Girl told me how she didn't feel any connection with her previous date on tinder. She texted the guy and apologized

I told her everyone has the right to have their own preference but she shouldn't have apologized because you shouldn't apologize to something that you don't regret doing. Saying sorry just for the sake of it is insincere.

And that just didn't come out of my ass, I genuinely find this insincere. So you have to integrate your own beliefs and philosophies on the conversation.

This technique made her trust me in just one date and she ended up blurting out her secrets to me. She was so comfortable that she was the one who initiated getting sexual.

I want to emphasize that you can't fake this shit. Women are highly intuitive and will know if you're just bullshitting your way to her panties. Be genuine with your questions and comments.

How to practice it.

I practiced this by just jumping into 1on1 online chatrooms. I asked questions to dig deep and find something interesting from the person I'm speaking to. This really takes the pressure off because you're completely anonymous. You don't see the person and neither does she.

You don't need to keep pressuring yourself to impress her, you don't need to "maintain the frame" or force yourself to be confident... don't get me wrong these are all great. but if you're naturally introverted, then sometimes, all it takes to make a lasting impact and gain her trust is to "be in her world."