Not sure on what approach to use. Anything perceived as weak will ruin it, but can't make it too strong as I expect she'll need a cooling off period. I don't want to re-schedule our date until I have re-gained some of the vibe from before.

Ed: We had a date booked, were both very looking forward to it, I killed the mood so she cancelled, she is now acting forgiving, I want to schedule a new date but only after the vibe is back at least somewhat (otherwise it will feel lame compared to the initial expectation)
Ed 2: I haven't been clear enough - IMMEDIATELY AFTER a fuckup has been forgiven, where is the best place to take the conversation without looking like I'm scared that I may offend her again