I went on a few great dates with this girl, but when it came to sex, I had issues with performance due to a problem with my foreskin, and that just killed the vibe. I enjoyed my time with her and there was attraction, until I couldn't really perform due to that issue. Now that problem is resolved, i want to send her a message again. She lives near me, and my barber is right near where her art pop up is. I've not actually seen her in 6 months, but I did enjoy my time with her, is it worth messaging again? I am tired of going on dating apps, I cant catch a break on one atm - and I really did like her despite our short time together.

I totally understand why anyone would consider it to be a red flag, as we spoke to each other for 3 weeks or so, met twice, but on both occasions i couldn't get an erection due to my tight foreskin. She said she doesn't think we have a spark, but i know its related to the issue I had (now resolved).