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[–]DaydreamingMister 111 points112 points113 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Proud of you. Good job.
And no matter what happens with the girl, the experience so far already changed your for the better forever. 👍🏾
[–]djamezz 105 points106 points107 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you're crushing it bud. nurture and respect this friendship. I promise that with one friend comes many friends. it'll widen your social circle exponentially and expose you to someone who is sexually/romantically interested in you. but for now, enjoy the ride. happy for u man
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
why was this downvoted? I'm convinced that some motherfxxkers have nothing better to do but hate on(and downvote) any sensible comment they see. Hold this upvote, homie.
[–]djamezz 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ahhh thank you brother, this made me smile asff
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good job overcoming your anxiety, OP.
Baby steps become monster leaps.
[–]RichDicken 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty GF's like her (actual female friends) are an excellent way to meet other attractive ladies, and when they put a good word in for you, your chances of dating their friends are significantly higher. Just keep playing it cool!
[–]No-Department6252 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
do you have anything your good at that you could use to get in clubs and maybe make more friends. In college dont focus on cold approach its about popularity. once everyone knows you as the cool social guy many the girls will come to you.
[–]Nofapdeity 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That’s great, maybe go for her friend instead
[–]AddictedDepression 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don’t find her even close to as attractive, physically or mentally.
[–]Nofapdeity 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That sucks. Here’s the thing though… she isn’t single
[–]AddictedDepression 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No I know. I’m mostly just glad I made a friend. Maybe one day, or maybe she has other friends, who knows.
[–]Nofapdeity 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She definitely has other friends for you to get with. Don’t discount female friends, some guys here will bullshit you with grr guys and girls can’t be friends!
Nah. I have plenty of girls that are my friends. Don’t discount them.
[–]chicken_cocONUT22 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/wholesome
[–]Keezymac34 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I appreciate u did that but u should reappy look to approch more girls especially one without a bf so u dont develop oneetis
[–]Evil_god7 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
how did you do it?i think i want to make friends of the opposite gender too.
[–]AddictedDepression 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I walked up to her after our class and said “hey, I have a free period right now, I was wondering if you wanted to get some lunch together?” She said “well I have a boyfriend, but yeah sure.” So we went and had lunch and turns out we get along really well.
She even said at one point, “I’ve seen you and thought you seemed cool and have been wanting to talk to you as well.”
So since then I have just said hey too her every time and class and we’ll have a conversation, then we catch lunch together sometimes.
[–]Evil_god7 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad to know that ,man!
[–]Hoho2332 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Proud of you my man💪💪
[–]campskills21 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
I think you should be thinking when you meet a girl that sticks her tongue down your throat within the first few meetings. This sounds positive though, good work.
[–]AddictedDepression 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
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[–]AddictedDepression 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Okay and? She has a boyfriend. What do you expect her to do?
[–]hustlejayjay85 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No expectations on either side. Just always be having fun and playful. Suductive with a grin.. like you're hiding something. (JAMES BOND) It's important here to have abundance. Let her know you want her without saying it. Keep working on approaching.. Just have fun. NO EXPECTATIONS!
[–]campskills21 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Be the guy that gets a girl that wants you.
[–]AddictedDepression 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There are other girls out there. There is nothing wrong with having a friend
[–]badabing654 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The difference being you don’t think of her as a friend. You just said you’re really attracted to her
[–]shawnchong07 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hopefully he's really just looking to make friends with her to achieve something more in the long run
[–]xxxpandoraxxx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great job man.
Keep her as your friend if you want to, as long as it doesn't bother you mentally.
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