Is it wrong to not want to date fat women?

fnordsnord · 2018-04-10T01:13:26+00:00

No. Date who you want. If you don't want to go whale hunting, don't, and don't let anyone tell you you should.

If gays "can't help it" that they're attracted to men, YOU can't help it that you're only attracted to 19-year-old hotties, and they need to stop shaming you for your sexual preferences.

AllModsAreLikeThat · 2018-04-10T01:00:34+00:00

Whatever bro. You looking for permission to go whale hunting? You’re on your own Ahab. Use your harpoon however you want.

PatnarDannesman · 2018-04-10T00:42:26+00:00

Never give a dog a bone. It’ll just follow you around and chew your shoes and shit on your carpet.

anonanonetc · 2018-04-10T00:42:44+00:00

No. Sounds like you know your preference. Also, I don’t subscribe to the idea that any girl is gonna make herself “easy” for you unless you alpha-up first.

Big_Red_suppository · 2018-04-10T01:06:02+00:00

It means you're swiping right on people you don't wanna fuck and the people you wanna fuck aren't reciprocating.

Here's the deal with fat chicks. I'm talking about the fat chicks you would fuck if no one was looking. They're in the danger zone. These chicks are fucked up, that belly is a check they've written and they want someone else to cash it.

Avoid at all cost. I'm experienced so I'm taking one for the team here. No free lunches in nature, tell that to the bitch that eats 3 lunches.

es1426 · 2018-04-10T01:20:38+00:00

Go for whoever and whatever you like. Nothing anyone can say here is going to change what you think, and it shouldn’t. I don’t personally like large women, but some do, and that’s their choice.

Be your own man.

Throwawayman90001 · 2018-04-10T03:39:23+00:00

I've had some excellent sex with fatties. Also terrible. YMMV

sinchurch · 2018-04-10T10:55:38+00:00

Your SMV is prob a little low or your profile sends that msg at least. But also keep in mind that online dating sites basically warp any idea of SMV...Guys usually come off lower than they are (some guys can use the platform to their advantage but most don’t)...While women, thanks to our blue pill culture, typically get an SMV jump of +3 points...

So that land whale who is actually a 4 operates in an online world where she is treated like a 7. I wouldn’t take offense that the big girls are messaging you.

That being said, what you accept will become the norm. Time is better spent working on yourself vs banging some chic you’re not attracted to.

resnine · 2018-04-10T12:47:03+00:00

It's up to you man. If fat chicks are your thing then go for it but remember there are drawbacks. I'd advise against it. I've already had a LTR (out of desperation and self-esteem issues) with a fat chick back when I was a beta bitch and in my experience you basically get a lot less respected by male and female. Your SMV goes downhill. But hey, if that makes you happy go for it.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-04-10T13:54:53+00:00

You only answer to yourself. Thinking it's wrong is social shaming having an effect on you. Your dick knows what it wants. Listen to it, and don't make excuses for it (unless it's animals, kids or something like that - in that case get help).

resnine · 2018-04-10T18:08:21+00:00

You should date people you are attracted to / want to be around.

It is unhealthy and compromising to sleep with people you don’t want to be seen with.

Life is too short to sleep with women you don’t want. Spend that time working on yourself and you’ll attract the women you do like.

Title	Is it wrong to not want to date fat women?
Author	resnine
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	April 10, 2018 12:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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