Hey everyone can I just say I’m thankful for all the tips you gave me in the past because I’ve made 10-15+ friends within a week and multiple being women (although they have bfs) and Now I just started randomly talking to people (both men and women, wherever I am) and it’s boosted my confidence a lot so thank you all!

On a sidenote I am a orientation leader for incoming students at my college and there is a really pretty coworker I have who is also a leader and I have caught her kind of checking me out once in a while. I just found out a couple days ago she goes to the gym regularly. She looked genuinely happy to see me there as we are both super physically fit. She looked like she was Super focused on her work out and I didn’t want to catch her off guard so I just smiled and waved and she did the same back. I talked to her the next day and she said I should’ve came up to her since we kind of know each other but she really doesn’t talk to random people in the gym. I was going to close in and try and get her social media/contact information but she had to leave quick since her shift started right after lunch and I didn’t get it. HOWEVER, all leaders have a handbook and the handbook has everyone’s contact information, that being their mobile number. I didn’t just want to text her out of the blue without her consent because I think that would come off as weird so I’m wondering if I should see her in the gym next time and close or if I should try to see her while we are both working and close on getting her snap. Looking for advice on what to do here thanks.

(She is vegan and I am not, so I am not sure if that will work with her but it never hurts to try ¯_(ツ)_/¯)