Girl 1 : date at a bar, next to each other. I touch her in the back. I know she goes back to her country for 10 days. The date was also short because she was waking up early for the trip the next day. At the end of the date she asks when I am free, and says in the lines of "see you after my trip". Unmatch on Bumble.

Girl 2 : date at a bar, face to face so no touch. But we seem to click on. At the end of the date, she suggests we meet again the next week. After a few days, I ask her out for the second date. She says she's not down to continue.

Girl 3 : date tonight, she had to leave back to her place by 10pm so she suggested we have a first date now and if we click on we meet tomorrow again for a bang. First date goes seems to go well, touch, she stays until the last minute for her train. She says she's down to meet tomorrow. On the app I suggest a time and place for tomorrow. She deletes her account!

Is this a new trend or is there a pattern of failure I am not seeing? I must say I did not kiss at any of these first dates. Maybe they were hesitating to meet again but still suggested to do so in order to keep an opportunity?