Drive up to the location, look at the app to make sure I am in the right spot. Notice the girl has a cute photo in the app so obviously I'm stoked. She walks up after a minute and she's easily ten times hotter than in her photo, and I literally said "Oh fuck yeah dude" right before she gets in to the car.

She gets in and I do the normal "Hey how's your night going?" fishing questions that I normally do. She says something to the affect of "Not too bad and yours?" which is normally a good sign that the girl isn't immediately off put by my advances to have a bit of dialogue. So then I spend the next 30 min or so of the ride talking to her and genuinely being interested in her life because it is definitely interesting, her looks were just a kick ass bonus. She tells me about how she's a bottle service girl in Vegas and is also a chef (even has her own Instagram dedicated to it), while also owning a house outright, and is opening a transportation company in the near future where in her words "will net a profit of around 30k a month from two trucks alone" and honestly even if that part sounds like bs I didn't care because she was doing me the common decency of having a conversation.

The whole ride I felt like damn this girl is smart and a total babe too? When does that happen? and as we roll up to the club where she is meeting her friends I ask for her Instagram handle which she happily gives me, we both say it was nice to meet each other and she departs.

Looking back on the whole scenario, some might say I should've asked for her number and I would agree, however the fact that I was even able to have an awesome conversation with a girl that was a lot more than just her looks was enough for me to be satisfied. Especially considering that a few years ago I would have been scared shitless to even look at a hot girl in public, much less have a conversation where I don't end up sounding like a total creep because I just wanted to sleep with her.

My whole point to this is, shoot your shot man. We only got one life to live and you might surprise yourself with who you're capable of scoring if you just talk to them like you would anyone else and not put any expectations on it. I did that in this scenario, and while admittedly I should've asked for her number, I am still happy with the progress I have made from always sounding like a loser to being able to have a normal conversation with someone.