Anybone here overcome his approach anxiety?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-29T17:27:57+00:00

I did sales in college. I had to go up to random people in the store and make a pitch. I just than applied this to girls I wanted to sleep with

BeASimpleWinner · 2021-07-29T16:29:09+00:00

I did overcome it, at least effectively. I still feel it sometimes, it's just not enough to stop me anymore.

If you're giving compliments that's huge congrats! Most guys I know can't even do that.

I mostly had to force it the first few times. I planned out the two or three lines I would say beforehand, and practiced so I wouldn't stumble over my words. Then I did stumble a ton anyways - it won't be smooth the first few times, so just let yourself be imperfect at the start.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-29T18:14:03+00:00

Yes almost everyone who's good at cold approach used to be just like you.

Stop giving complements - whoever told you to do that - stop listening to them.

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-29T18:08:40+00:00

AA has literally been my biggest hurdle for years...I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.

Title	Anybone here overcome his approach anxiety?
Author	ronn10
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	July 29, 2021 4:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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