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[–]Therocksays2020 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Things come up, the fact she offered another date is a good sign. When the woman doesn’t offer to reschedule she’s not feeling it.
Respectfully you come off a little needy right now. Are you not seeing other people?
If you still aren’t sure just tell her the day you’ll be back and put the responsibility on her to pick the next date.
[–]pl0m 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Alright mate. I just leave it til im back, she knows the date and time so lets see what happens. I have some other girls that wants to meet but im not interested in them at all and only been grinding on this fine piece of jewelry for the past weeks.
[–]Popthecoin 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A date with a girl got rescheduled 3 times by the 4 I was like nope I cancelled it and was no longer interested. Thought best to stop talking to her and move on.
[–]TheSunshineMan 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Set exact plans if you'll be back within the next week.
"Lets meet on X day at X time."
Her response will show how serious she is about meeting.
[–]pl0m 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So if shes not available that day you think she will reschedule?
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's serious about meeting.
[–]Papa_Musk 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think it means she's not that interested. If you were a celebrity she wouldn't text you and be like oh I'm too tired. She's still somewhat interested so keeping you on the back burner as an option if her better options don't work out.
I say if you have other options date them instead. Only invite her out one more time to something you are already doing. Don't plan a date for her just invite her to something impromptu eg. you are going to a bar with some friends and you text her a couple hours before and invite her to join you and if she flakes on that too goodbye forever.
[–]pl0m 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i think so too, she asked if it was ok though to meet another Day (I forgot to add that in my threadstart) and yes i have other dating options but this girl is a solid 10 here in sweden. We have high standards over here and the other options are in a different league than this girl so i just want to grind her all the way.
[–]Papa_Musk 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just get 2 5s that's a ten booyeah math. Quickest way to get laid is lower your standards. Plus it boosts the confidence.
[–]pl0m 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been there done that. Its not challenging enough mate.
She texted me today randomly and asked how my day was. So seems We were both wrong :)
[–]Papa_Musk 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean it's not enough evidence to prove she's more than not that interested, just don't over invest, good luck
[–]mikeoxlong1975 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Don’t chase her, leave it a while, if she doesn’t text you first, then you’ve got a good idea of where you stand.
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't agree with this AT ALL - not in this situation - she said wants to meet when he gets back - ball is in his court to be a man and sex the exact day and time.
[–]mikeoxlong1975 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then give her a date and a time and see if she agrees. My point was leave it a week, till after the travel, then communicate. if she communicates back in the meantime then all is good. But don’t chase it.
[–]pl0m 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But why would that be my ball if shes the one who cancel? I would lack self respect if im contacting her to book a new date.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then don't message her.
Then why are you even on here posting this in the first place then.
[–]pl0m 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah dude, youre clearly not getting it. Im not asking wether i should message her or not. Im asking what it means.
Thanks for your advice mate. Youre confirming my thoughts so thats good. I leave it for a week and we will see.
[–]TheSunshineMan -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't agree with this - read my comment to them.
[–]revente 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
It means she wants to cancel it mate.
[–]SilverSpirit7 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Brilliant observation.
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