What are your thoughts on a girl saying she’s busy, not bringing up another day, but continuing to talk?

Gurney_Pig · 2021-05-29T04:22:57+00:00

Holy crap, is that what it looks like to get a reply on a dating app?

shaggy2gay · 2021-05-29T05:03:36+00:00

This is really solid, it's still on. Move to snap or get her to text you. Get her to say yes to the premise of meeting up, but don't go for specific plans until she does say yes to meeting you in person. You're good.

AnAngryYordle · 2021-05-29T04:58:50+00:00

If she doesn’t wanna meet she‘s clearly not interested. Everybody has the ability to make time. I‘ve had dates at 11am before for two hours in between her working and meeting with others.

FullNefariousness310 · 2021-05-29T04:26:23+00:00

So this happened to me recently (didnt read whole convo)....she even brought up she hooked up with a guy drunk and we still kept talking (we had 1 date)....anywho whenever i brought up second date, she either said maybe or lol or just didnt respond. So i thanked her for not ghosting me and when she asked what i explained what ghosting was and she said lol mmkay and i never replied. Also deleted her number. To cut out the temptation.

claret_n_blue · 2021-05-29T06:30:59+00:00

I dont buy into the idea of one shot only or that's it, ditch her. There is clearly still chat and banter between you two. I would say move to snap (she's just double checking you're not a catfish/have great pics but ugly in real life) and then try again.

If you get a second rejection with no alternative, then I'd say leave it

redmodsarefagslol · 2021-05-29T14:56:42+00:00

It means she doesn’t want to date you and she’s just continuing the convo to be nice.

fvckCrosshairs · 2021-05-29T08:43:06+00:00

Sometimes you need to build a little more rapport in order for them wanting to meet, some girls will go out with you right off the bat, some need to be comfortable first. If she continues talking a day or two and she's still not down, move on bro

2021-05-29T11:43:42+00:00

wtf? bro she wants to snap. she said her nephew was coming or whatever. you can't expect her to take initiative and suggest a time to meet. you're the man... bring it up again when it feels right and make it happen!

Title	What are your thoughts on a girl saying she’s busy, not bringing up another day, but continuing to talk?
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Date	May 29, 2021 4:00 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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