Disclaimer:- This is something that I've learned from my experience. This is not universal or absolute truth. I'm speaking directly from my own experience, not from any coach or book. Just keep that in mind as you read.

1.If You Have Romantic Interest in Mind, You Have No Choice But To Be Confident. Being Nervous (most of the time) Means Game Over.

There is an website and it measures the attractiveness of your face based on some geometric proportion. When it comes to proportional and symmetric look, this is a great way discover your facial attractiveness. I uploaded my photo and I became aware of some of facial disproportionation.

So that's what I mean by eminently average. Most Girls will look at you and will think, "This guy is OK.", your friends don't think you’ll do much good with the ladies. That's basically what I mean by eminently average.

So if that's you, You have no other choice but to be confident.

"But what if I'm not confident? What if I'm nervous around girls?! Confident don’t come naturally."

I can hear you ask. But I have no answer. The only thing I will say is that if you have a big nose, small chin and not so proportional forehead like me, then you have no other choice but to appear confident, otherwise It's game over (more than 90% of the time).

If a 6'3" tall, blue eyed square jaw model is being nervous around girls. The girls will think, "Aww! His nervousness makes him look so cute!"

But if you do the same. Girls will think you’re a creep.

Focus on the things that helps you get in a confident, relaxed state of mind and practice them daily. And with the help of nice grooming, good posture, good eye contact and a nice tone of voice you should have no problem.

If you are an average/invisible guy like me I'm not sharing this advice so that you can get every girl you like, but because at least you won't creep her out in the first impression.

2.You can't be bold. In most cases, you Have To Be Subtle and progress things gradually.

I've tried to be bold with women a lot of times but none of them yielded positive result.

The only times when I got success was when my first impression were genuinely platonic and I didn’t show them even a least amount of romantic interest at first.

But what's more surprising was everytime I appeared normally confident and romantically neutral I got friendly response. That motivated me a lot.

So make sure she is comfortable with you before making any kind of comment that may raise the temperature. This (to create some amount of trust and comfort) is really important. You can use rapport, find common interest or talk about intriguing topics to create the weather of comfort.

3. You Must Work on Your Outer-Game. Otherwise, Reduce Your Expectations.

Ask a girl, "He is so short. Why did you date him?" or "He is not that Good looking, what does a girl like you find attractive about him?

The truth is it happens. Great looking girls do date not so good looking guys/eminently average guys who has no specimen like physical feature.

And the answer to one of those questions above is always some inner quality that the girl finds attractive.

Since you’re not traditionally attractive or worse if you’ve slightly below average genetics, you must do something to fill the gap and that's why outer games is important for you.

Can you get to know her on a deep level (what drives her in life, what are somethings she wouldn't share with a total stranger) without talking for 35 minutes?

Can you create an emotional bond with her without boring her with countless questions?

The thing is God didn’t make you special, so make yourself special. I'm not gonna tell you exactly what to do for that cuz you probably already know the answer.

I had special Interest towards Mentalism, Mind Reading, Cold Reading and it helped countless times not just in dating but in jobs and social life in general. But that's what I did, not everyone is the same.

I don't remember how many times I've heard the sentence, "You're so unique" from different girls. I don't know what they found so unique, all I know is I made an effort to stand out from other guys. I had to cuz I'm an average trying get something not so average.

The truth is look and aesthetic is a highly debatable topic but we all know some truth about it. That being said, some girls will call you unattractive or worse ugly when some girls will find your eyes cute or say that you look hot. And if you think about it, It'll only make you more confused. So the answer lies less in thinking and more in doing. I see a lot of dating coaches giving advice who look like models. Do they really think about the average height guy who has a big nose, small chin and a forehead too small for his face? I don't think so. I've just explained what has worked for me. May be you're a guy like me (or not). If so, will they work for you? Only way to know is to go out and try what I've said and the opposite of what I've said. Find out what works for YOU. Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own. I wish you more than luck :)