When it comes to approach, can something simple yet genuine be very effective without all the other stuff?

Law_Even · 2021-04-26T17:33:24+00:00

Has worked for me. But mostly i just strike up a conversation, afterall i need to find out if i like her vibe. Looks only arent enough for me. But yeah, just being honest and natural works. But you require being at peace with yourself and confidence.

But dont ask strangers on the internet. Try what you like. Every woman is different. Some like bold approaches some dont. You need to find your own style, and then act on what you think is best. Just trust your gut. Afterall its just trusting yourself wich is confidence✌️

ProjectPeakAdmin · 2021-04-26T19:00:45+00:00

The problem with "Hey I just saw you and thought you were really cute" is that you're not connecting with the girl on any level except physical. If you're commenting on her clothes this can work, but for the most part you need some type of topic to connect on and talk about.

I think you may find this interview helpful, especially the part that I linked to :)

A really good opening topic is the city you're currently in. Why is she there and why are you there? What do you both like about (insert your city here)? Next thing you know you're both talking about how you like the local salsa dancing group/improv comedy venue/karaoke bars/etc. and you can invite her out on a date to that activity

Some-Sandwich8887 · 2021-04-26T17:07:44+00:00

If only it was that way...

earsurgery9 · 2021-04-26T17:53:21+00:00

you're describing direct game, basically. And it's fine. In fact, nowadays it seems to have taken over from indirect game in the community.

Truth is, it's kind of irrelevant! (that's why all the 'pros' could never agree about anything lol) - go direct. Go indirect. Doesn't matter. All that matters is you approach and shoot your shot. The actual result is out of your hands.

RepresentativeEmu636 · 2021-04-26T20:59:39+00:00

Yeah that shit worked in the 20th century, you got guys from India calling woman beautiful, social media watered down the game you just gotta come with more. Good luck king 🙏🏿

Bo0mh3adsh0t · 2021-04-26T17:30:17+00:00

It works in principal if you do it to every girl because of the women that are attracted to you some women will value your confidence and straightforwardness highly and agreed to give out their number. For the other women who find you attractive they will need more from you to gauge whether you are socially calibrated enough to "deserve" their number.

Therefore the method works but you will have to approach more women to have the same success compared to going through the normal 'game' steps. The 2 flaws being not enough shown value in this approach and complimenting on something they have (attractiveness) instead of something they did (style choice).

JohnZoffman · 2021-04-26T17:11:25+00:00

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Title	When it comes to approach, can something simple yet genuine be very effective without all the other stuff?
Author	Astrotheurgy
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	April 26, 2021 5:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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