How to "chat up" a girl?

beaverNutt · 2017-01-20T04:33:53+00:00

I like to ask questions, or use the ford method. Family Occupation, Recreation, and dreams. When you ask these questions read her answer and find a way to talk more about it or kind of play with it and guess it will make it more fun and make her talk more. Talking about family can really go a long way and help you relate. After that try to find ways to be flirty. Or you can just ask them on a date.

MattyEvans35 · 2017-01-20T08:05:28+00:00

It's all about having the balls to approach, over all else. Let me give you a real world example.

I was in London one day last summer and I walked past a girl on a bench. She was young (I'm 34, she was 20) she was wearing a tight black crop top which hugged her pert tits and those short denim shorts around her perfect ass - she was an 8/10. I would have walked past except I saw her give me a double glance and I had some time to kill so I just went for it - can't even remember what I said but it was something about the weather or the camera she was holding. After 2 mins I remembered 'lead' so I said 'let's go get a drink, I'll buy the first round but you're buying the second'. To which she complied and then told me her name (hadn't even asked by this point).

Then we drank 2 beers each while I teased her, asked her about her life (she was from LA) and got some kino by comparing hand size. At that point she wrapped her fingers round mine and we continued chatting - a good sign...

I also remembered the trick of getting her next to me rather than opposite me.

Then I remembered 'lead' again and took her to another bar. On the way I had my arm round her saying let's pretend we're a couple to shock people (because of the 14 yr age gap). At the next bar she draped her leg over mine and we were kissing within 20 mins, so I said there were some bars near my hotel 10 mins walk away. She said she needed to charge her phone & I had a charger in my room - so we ended up straight at my hotel, less than 2 hrs after meeting. We fooled around for a couple hours, but we didn't do the actual deed, I think because of the fact her LMR was so high due to the fact we were strangers who'd met an hour before in the middle of the day.

This episode taught me a lot about game though and 'chatting up' women. Age is irrelevant. What you say is irrelevant to a point.

TheXXL · 2017-01-20T12:48:07+00:00

There is nothing to explain, just approach, and say what you want. You can even recite cookie recipes if you feel like it...

DaygameCoach · 2017-01-20T05:04:18+00:00

Read all the sidebar help. Also, "How do I talk to a girl?" is more of a question for the beginners board, #askseddit.

Cesare_MA · 2017-01-20T05:16:39+00:00

Talking about background info like job and family and aspirations gets boring really, really fast. You should try to start joking around/teasing her as soon as you can and just do that. It takes a lot of practice.

Jack__Knife · 2017-01-20T15:37:06+00:00

Try Google it's amazing.

Title	How to "chat up" a girl?
Author	CaptainDoge7
Upvotes	11
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Date	January 20, 2017 3:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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