Girls that look at you after rejecting/flaking

odonien · 2019-02-26T22:45:54+00:00

If someone shots me down, I don't care anymore. She can approach me if she wants to date me at some point. I already made my intentions clear.

Rainwolf343 · 2019-02-27T00:42:42+00:00

I once got shot down by a girl after telling her I was into her. She rejected me and said that she didn’t feel the same. I told her that if she changes her mind to seek me out. 3 days later she did and we fucked.

I’m not saying this will always happen, but how you handle the rejection is key to whether they may come back to you or not. Also some girl’s default response is to reject a guy and then consider dating him. But if you act like an asshole when rejected then you’ll lose any chance you had.

marmaladajazzikov · 2019-02-26T23:59:58+00:00

Idk about your situation but I rejected a guy last year because although I really liked him I knew we were incompatible in the long run. He took the rejection well, but completely ignored me afterwards. Which was a shame because I wanted to remain friends, even if not as close as before. I did put more effort into making eye contact and saying hi etc. and we are friends now. Maybe you’re in the same position as he was?

slickestwood · 2019-02-27T02:09:14+00:00

Did she say why she rejected you? Some things change over time, some things don't.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-02-27T19:52:41+00:00

Is it possible you are mistaking those IOI (from girl who already rejected you) as just her keeping an eye out for you as precaution? I'm sure you would look in the direction of a girl you have rejected in the past?

BishopDayGame · 2019-02-26T21:15:21+00:00

If you’re new, it’d be wiser to avoid social circle game until you’re intermediate. In the beginning you have no idea how uncalibrated you are and you’re going to lower your social status in the circle.

For now I would keep it platonic and friendly. When you are consistently dating from day/night game, then you can hit on girls in your circle.

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Title	Girls that look at you after rejecting/flaking
Author	neverquitman
Upvotes	11
Comments	19
Date	February 26, 2019 8:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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