Did quitting porn motivate you more to work on game?

cDz_27 · 2019-03-30T18:47:13+00:00

Harder more sensitive erections.

Hope you witness an uglier, shorter, less endowed and penniless gentleman sweep a woman awayfrom you because he accepts himself and carries an authentic confidence.

2019-03-30T22:40:28+00:00

I use to think the same way as you tell recently I started getting results. I dressed normally and carried myself in an un-attractive way. I'll post a pic. I need some advice. I do get approach signals quite often. For example today alone I got three. It's all about your mindset. I give out tons of advice under the seduction section. Seduction section changed my life and so did a couple courses I took.

https://imgur.com/L7GsIS7

KindnessWins · 2019-03-31T05:15:27+00:00

Ur a good looking guy bro. You look like either the guitarist in a band or a drummer lol. As for getting in shape it's tough right? But what if a genie came up in front of you and gave u a killer body and said "ok now to maintain it just work out". Because you're already jacked you'd be motivated to stay in shape AND because you're jacked your workouts will be fun and easy.

That's what I do for people as a pickup artist. I'm that genie. And I get them in that space in 1hr and 20minutes. Then I get them to practice while already in that powerful space

mojo_mast · 2019-03-30T18:55:47+00:00

I think the most import thing to know is that if you developed the right skills achieving your goals could actually be easy, it's just developing the skills that is the hard part.

cDz_27 · 2019-03-30T19:06:15+00:00

You got a big brain.

Have fun Youll do just fine

Matilozano96 · 2019-03-30T23:21:02+00:00

If you’re balding you could consider going all the way and shave.

gtrman571 · 2019-03-31T07:19:21+00:00

Of course - When you’re not constantly gratifying yourself your only option is to go out

Aeon199 · 2019-03-31T07:33:20+00:00

Can you be a loser in his 30s, and still find cool chick? I don't mean they have to look particularly good, I mean some degree of self-awareness, I don't mind if they're awkward, or if they're like me (anxious mess, unemployed, etc.) but I'm kinda losing hope. It's like I can't fix the loserdom anymore, I gave in completely a decade ago. It's hard to think there would be any interest.

cardkid1234 · 2019-03-31T08:21:30+00:00

I used to be a socially awkward high school teenager than dressed poorly, had bad hygiene and didn't take care of himself all that well. It all kind of stemmed from social awkwardness and the idea that if I never tried to seem desirable, no one would be able to reject me because I never tried. It was a very backwards way of thinking and a huge defense mechanism.

Once I left high school I finally worked up the courage to change my image. It was something about the idea of being around a whole new group of people with a fresh mindset that got me interested in changing my image. I decided to get a new haircut, start going to the gym more often and overall acting more personable.

I became acquainted with a couple groups of people but didn't really click with any of them my first year of college. I decided to keep interacting with more groups and really putting myself out there. I continued putting myself out of my comfort zone by going to partied (and rarely getting any type of action) before I started really understanding what a social environment felt like.

Fast forward to my 2nd year of college I ended up really going out of my comfort zone and joining a fraternity. Most people did this their first year so I really felt uncomfortable and out of place. Although I never really fit in very well with greek like, I began meeting lots of girls in social settings and realized that I started developing a personality that a bunch of girls actually seemed to enjoy.

I started inviting some of these girls back to the parties as easy ways to reconnect with them. This is when I started really getting some girls interested in me to the point where I was fully aware that was the case. I kept working on myself at the gym essentially doing everything I could to make myself seem more and more desirable (at least in my own eyes which boosted my confidence level).

It was in my third year that I met a girl that I would later go on to date for about a year. She definitely was the love of my life and I still think so. We ended up breaking up because it was a "right person, wrong time" situation. She didn't want to just accept that I would be the one because she didn't feel that she had explored enough yet. Although it was a painful breakup it taught me a lot about the way girls think and what they really look for in a man.

Today, having experienced all of this first hand, I can say that I am an entirely different person than I was in high school. I lost a lot of weight going to the gym religiously and eating healthy which boosted my self esteem a lot all on its own. I now go out and talk to girls extremely comfortably. I would say many of them are out of my league but take to me regardless because of the energy I bring and the confidence I radiate. I realized not a lot of other men are able to show that because of their own lack of self esteem or confidence.

I even am at the point where I wing man for a lot of my friends who aren't exactly at my comfort level. I easily put them in situations that are way out of their comfort zone but they and I both know I do it really to help them out in the long run because they know me and they know that I wasn't always this way.

I really like the person I am now and I am confident that I will have a successful future. This type of self confidence that you build isn't just a confidence with women. It is a confidence in general. The idea that you can do anything that you put your mind to ( but then proceed to actually do it). If it doesn't work out then oh well, the other 7 girls that gave me their number that night would disagree with them.

I am not trying to toot my own horn or anything but I can definitely say that I am both a glow up and a social transformation from my old self. It takes a lot of working on you and drive to get there but it is well worth it in the long run. It puts you in a position where you not only feel you can get any girl you want but you can do anything you want as well.

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-03-31T10:24:27+00:00

No, using porn, makes it easier to game, because you won't be so thirsty. Thirsty is a turnoff.

Title	Did quitting porn motivate you more to work on game?
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Date	March 30, 2019 5:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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