It's about not needing that one girl."

I read this from a fellow sedditor's comment.

When I first started learning seduction, I was excited to apply what I learned. More specifically, I was excited to apply it on my ex-lovers and friends that I've crushed on for years.

I would think to myself that I now have the tools to make things work this time. That this time, things would be different because I'm different.

It didn't work. But the reason it didn't work wasn't because I didn't do the right things or say the right words. It didn't work because, so long as I was still invested in making things work with one particular girl, I was stuck in a scarcity mindset.

When you're in a scarcity mindset, you will never be bold enough to take the risks you should be taking, and you will always be too invested in the outcome. As long as I kept pining for a particular woman, I will always falsely believe that she was the only one that could give me what I want.

But that's not what seduction is about. I see a lot of posts on here asking for specific advice about a specific woman, and it reminds me of this very same mistake that I made.

Seduction is about not needing that one woman. It's about recognizing that there are abundant opportunities out there to meet the woman that you want. Seduction helps you develop tools to capture those opportunities, but not all opportunities will work out.

And that's okay, because there will always be more.