A common pitfall that we make is expecting perfection out of ourselves. We read and learn game, and there's so many things to remember, that we psyche ourselves from approaching because we start thinking to ourselves "No, wait. I haven't gotten all the material down yet."

Maybe you've experienced some success in the past. But now you see this cutie in the park, and you're afraid to approach because now you expect yourself to succeed all the time and don't want to risk failure. So then you become really picky about who you approach, trying to make sure all the circumstances are right to minimize failure.

Maybe you see all this advice about getting in shape, having a more social life, and adopting a not-give-a-fuck attitude. But then you look at yourself and think "I'm not in shape yet. I don't have a great social life. I still give a fuck." And so you keep telling yourself that you're not ready to start approaching women because you don't have these aspects of your life under control.

Don't be perfect. You don't need to know everything there is to know about game to go out and approach. You don't need to get the number or get the lay every time to feel like you're making progress. You don't need to have all aspects of your life worked out in order to start exploring your relationships with women.

When I first started out, I was still living with my parents. I was a skinny 130 pound dude. I had plenty of really boring and dumb approaches. Despite that, some of the women went on dates with me.

And it's because a woman can feel attracted to you, comfortable with you, and emotionally connected with you even if you're not perfect. She's not perfect either, but that didn't stop you from wanting to date her.

So, why would it stop her?

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