What do you do when you run into girls who have blown you off before?

HelloHiHello · 2012-09-28T00:33:10+00:00

What is the past? It's a figment if your imagination. It's not real.

You may think, "if I go up to her, she'll remember she rejected me." And because you go up to her with that attitude, she'll react exactly how you expect.

Instead, realize your slate is wiped clean every second that passes. You are not your past. Use your past as a reference sheet, but don't attach your "personality," your SELF to your past.

2012-09-28T00:13:48+00:00

Personally I look them in the eye (I make a habit of doing this anyway) if we lock eyes, so be it, then just walk on. Don't look embarrassed, just go about your day. It shows you've acknowledged her but couldn't give a fuck, you're not ashamed and you don't care what she thinks.

I wouldn't approach again unless she gives you an IOI.

skyshock · 2012-09-28T03:59:12+00:00

for me, personally, i just smile at them. well, its more of a smirk, really. almost as if to say "hey, remember me? you blew it." i almost never say anything unless they say something first. bottom line: don't make it awkward. if they do, so be it. it really shouldnt bother you so much.

LogicalTechno · 2012-09-28T03:45:22+00:00

Feel like they missed out on the greatest thing ever, smile.

bluehat9 · 2012-09-28T14:36:31+00:00

It's weird. A lot of girls who blow me off end up coming back interested later on. Usually I'm pissed though and don't give them a chance. Is this the wrong attitude? I just usually get mad. You didn't like me then? Well don't like me now.

asnof · 2012-09-28T03:16:55+00:00

Act like they havent ever sucked you off before. Treat them as a friend, because thats what they should be. Unless you prefer the 3 f's (find em fuck em, forget em)

JhonnyT · 2012-09-28T15:15:30+00:00

Depends how long ago it was. If it was fairly recent I'll just smile and nod. If we end up sitting nearby or something I'd probably have idle conversation.

If it's been a while, I might go in again, particularly if she had a boyfriend or something when I tried the first time.

sillymallard · 2012-09-28T01:50:58+00:00

Try to forget who they are. Then try opening them again. I think at RSD bootcamps they sometimes make students re-open sets that blew them out initially.

2012-09-28T23:39:19+00:00

If you make eye contact just make a grossed out face and burst out "god damn it was dark in the club"

No but seriously just don't give a fuck. At first not giving a fuck seems impossible, but it takes practice, and is well worth the effort.

icewildabeast · 2012-09-28T20:53:38+00:00

Try again! Just because she blew you off that time, doesnt mean she had will blow you off again. If she blows you off, she'll forget about you after that night/day and you can approach again, and if she feels like she's seen you before, just say you just have one of those faces and the deja vu is a sign of good things to come. AND DONT FORGET TO SMILE. I can't tell you how many times guys forget to do this, and even though what they said was good, their face was too strained or not relaxed or not fun to look at.

Coming from the girl's perspective, Why would she remember all the faces/people she's rejected or didnt like (at the time)? She's reacting instinctively. The only reason she'd remember you for any longer amount of time is if you hurt her.

Until a girl says "I don't want you to ever come near me again" or something to that nature, you can keep trying.

Title	What do you do when you run into girls who have blown you off before?
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Date	September 28, 2012 12:02 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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