18 - 19 year old here, does it get better with age?

WeirdSmartKid · 2019-07-26T11:15:35+00:00

There will always be both nice people and not nice people, guys trying to amog you etc. I’m 22 but have a baby face and probably look like 18-19. I joined a group of three hot girls and two big, handsome guys dancing in a circle. I was dancing next to the hottest of the girls, in my eyes a 10, and when I looked at her she was checking me out and smiling, a very clear IOI. So I offered my hand and she took it. I spun her around and she spun towards me, so I put my hand on her waste and led her in front of me, her grinding on me and holding her hands. This gave me some insane confidence in the moment, and both her and the other girls seemed amused, but the guys clearly didn’t like it, and one of the guys ended up physically pushing me away multiple times.

I’ve also many times met people who, when I said I was alone, introduced me to all their friends and was very nice. Just find the good people, and stand up the the bad people. Don’t let them bring you down, stay unreactive. If people are trying to amog you or are being mean, it shows weakness in them. If you stay unreactive and keep doing you, it shows strength in you. Keep going man :)

Least1ngenuity · 2019-07-26T10:21:54+00:00

Yes and no, it simply gets different. Some things better some things worse.

theunconquored · 2019-07-26T15:49:25+00:00

Just keep it up. Don’t ever commit or get married. Your best years of sleeping with 19 year olds are in your 30s and 40s. Just keep on keeping on, my man.

And get to the gym and the barber. It’s all easier when you’re in shape, well groomed, and have game.

ahjota · 2019-07-26T19:07:31+00:00

it gets waaay better with age. Some advice- at your age, aim for women closer to your age, it's just a lot easier to connect with someone around this age. But what I've noticed once I go into my late 20's I was dating a lot of women 2-3 years younger than me, or 2 years older. Now that I'm in my early 30's I date a lot of women in their mid-to-late 20's or women around my age with the oldest being 35. To be honest the consensus that I've noticed is that women in their mid to late 20's prefer to date older men, or men in their 30's. It's almost an unwritten standard that women believe dating men in their 30's is a lot better.

VIGILANCE981 · 2019-07-26T11:28:14+00:00

If you get good other your mediocrity follows you right through

2019-07-26T16:51:58+00:00

Honestly yes it does get better. At about 21-24 you are pretty much peak attractiveness but after that you can continue to gain attractiveness with a career and with experience. Not that any of that is needed if you are confident and smooth but being 18-19 is an awkward age for older girls. You are transitioning from a highschool mindset to a real world mindset and most people older already know this. Girls will want to fuck but not take you serious so it's a great time to hook up and get experience.

XDarkstarX1138 · 2019-07-26T17:44:33+00:00

It's so so at times. With the modern dating age and all the dating apps out there girls have the mindset they want Mr. Perfect and won't settle for anything less. There are a lot of them out there that have become very picky. After college it gets harder meeting people too because everyone's in their careers and busy.

Title	18 - 19 year old here, does it get better with age?
Author	political_c
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	July 26, 2019 9:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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