Early 30s in college, I look a lot younger than I am. Should I lie about my age? Girls seem interested at first than get weirded out if I tell them my real age.

tedfahrvergnugent · 2015-04-18T19:57:54+00:00

I'd tell them. Their reaction could be as much about how you feel about it and how that comes off when you tell them as it could be just inherent desire for a younger guy. A LOT of girls like older men. If you never intend to go further than a few interactions then maybe honesty is less important although I think honesty and confidence go hand in hand. You really never know how far things will go though and having a lie hanging over you sucks especially one so small.

flaxeater · 2015-04-18T20:34:16+00:00

Rush says to make a joke out of it. 'Are you nervous talking to an older man?'

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-18T20:57:46+00:00

Don't lie, you can answer truthfully. Just keep a strong frame, and keep running game. It happened with my current GF (I could read her freaking out facial expression) but I kept going and it turned out fine. (She is 10 years younger than me.)

It also could be a shit test (when they ask), so read the sidebar help. You could change the subject when they ask, but I don't bother. Self limiting belief: If you think you are too old, you are.

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

rAlexanderAcosta · 2015-04-28T04:00:06+00:00

"Guess. I'll make you a cookie if you're right."

That's how I'd handle it.

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