I looked deep to see if this was against the rules here, and while it doesn't seem to be in the exact same spirit, I think that many of the same concepts can apply. Please, if I am wrong, or should be on /r/askseddit, let me know and i'll go there (or if there is a better sub for this, please let me know).

My question:

When you are dating someone, one of the great things about intimacy is the connection that it brings. I have some basic ideas on how to seduce, but I am wondering if you guys could help me up my "home game".

For example, I have been big into erotic massage. Create a nice calm setting, some peaceful music, some hot oils, and get my hands all over my partner - eventually leading towards sexual touching and sex. It creates quite a fire.

But now i'm looking for more ways into the erotic mindset at the same time as connecting to my partner. In my head, pops going for picnic, and engaging in sexual activity outside... those kinds of things.

It can be individual, but can you share with me some general seduction ideas that I can try on someone I am dating? I don't have to worry about gatekeepers, or trust building or approaching the topic of sex... I am just looking for ideas on which I can turn the passion up a bit... and seduction seemed like a good place.

Sorry if this is the wrong place... but I feel like it is a general enough question to be posted here.

Thanks in advance, I love lurking here otherwise!