Been lurking this sub for about a month now and these are the most important points that I've accumulated. Was just at a restaurant and a HB10 walked in alone and sat down and I didn't approach. Super fucking disappointed in myself. Swear it won't ever happen again. Anyway, this isn't meant to be an in-depth guide for newbies, more so a reminder for people like me who are still learning but can forget from time to time.

Do these in order to help become the overall MAN you want to be, not to seduce, impress, or make her like you more. These should be naturally integrated as a part of who you ARE. Main point is to be vulnerable which means be yourself and a lot of the other actions will present themselves naturally. When you're vulnerable, unashamed in what you do, then you start to truly be yourself. Equip that w strong body language and touching and you're golden. In no particular order:

-Body Language (eye contact, posture, confidence, smile, keep head up)

-Don't take yourself too seriously (Have fun, crack jokes you think are funny)

-Kino (They desire to be desired, escalate physically)

-Assertiveness/Conviction (Be assertive, direct, know what you want, do what you want when you want)

-Non-needy (Be more invested in yourself than her, don't drop plans, have own life, don't try to impress)

-Vulnerable (Mindset, not technique, open up about topics)

-"I wonder what she's like" (think this when approaching)

-Outcome Independent (don't be fixated on outcome, rather the process itself)

-Cold read (try and make statements opposed to just questions)

-Tease (try and tease WITH, break rapport, cocky/funny)

-Rejection (it's okay and completely normal, doesn't say anything about you as an individual)

-Ask Why (get to know the person, why they do what they do)

-Topics of Emotion (childhood, dreams, passions, fears and insecurities)

-Relate and Connect (relate to feelings)

-Social Games (personality test, 5 questions, fuego, thumb wars)

-Self amusement (don't take things too seriously)

-Conversation Threading (look for jump off points and listen intently with interest and then relate w a story or ask a question)

-Have opinions (talk w passions on subjects you're knowledgeable about)

-Be well rounded/versed (have knowledge in a lot of different areas)

-Live out own life (have a purpose, a life w/o girls and bring them along for the ride)

-Be genuine

-Nice and chivalrous

-Don't care what other people think of you

-Be relaxed and at ease

-Don't cater to what you think will make people like you

-Don't be afraid to express thoughts freely

-Don't seek approval

-Try to not be in your head

-3 second rule when approaching

-Humility

-Treat others and yourself well

-Neediness is putting others thoughts above your own. Having identity investment in that person

-Speak with conviction

-Don't be jealous (don't let others define relationship, be happy with yourself)

-Develop a love for finding out who she is