Let me list a few things to bring you guys up to speed firsthand. I've never had a problem getting girls or girlfriends, I would say my sex life is pretty good, or somewhat above average. I want it to be better, I want to have seduction as a skill I can wield so I don't have to resort to jacking it.

My main problem is I was never a club guy, never picked a girl up in one, never had a one night stand from a club. Never enjoyed clubs Until maybe four months ago. Every success I had was from parties, friends or online dating.

So I've been trying to run the whole gamut of seduction techniques. In my time doing this shit I've found that I'm moving further away from my own personality, and becoming this character which I don't really enjoy, not because of seduction, more because I'm thinking with tactics rather than instincts. That being said I'm ok with trying new things, and I'm happy with failing hard, which I do quite often.

When it comes to ONS I found its more about the girl choosing you then you choosing them, you just have to screen for the ones that want you, which might be a tini percentage in that night. However, I feel like you could "persuade" one if you played the game correctly.

This is where I'm fucking confused, I can talk to anyone, say whatever is on my mind, and have a great time. I can kino the shit out of anyone, I don't really have any shame. I find I have two problems, one I can't seem to turn a girl who's interested into more interested, and two I can't seem to get her out of the fucking place.

Lastly, I'm an American that lives in Norway, I've found that if I don't take them home that night they will never call me back. Getting a number close is super easy, but they will never fucking call you back, numbers don't mean shit here.