Hey guys, so I'm basically in this really shitty purgatory where I don't know what I'm doing or not doing, but it's fucking everything up. It's not status or looks, so it's definitely social. I'll end up in a social situation, and it's always the other dude with meh social skills getting the doggy eyes. Not even escalating verbally or physically. Not even interesting or emotional conversations.

I don't know if it's just a vibe or what, but I don't get shit ever and I can't figure out the first step for this is. I'm literally invisible most of the time, even compared to average men, when I've been approaching and working on game for a long time. I can't think of what the problem is, and I know this is incredibly vague, the only thing I can think of at all that's weak is intent, but the other dudes aren't doing that at all.

Things I do for sure: -Push/pull emotional conversations (look good on surface) -Eye contact -kino

I'm just looking for random things to take a look at, or if you had similar sticking points that you fixed. Just point me in a new direction.