Just wanted to give you some perspective. I am in my mid 30's. Far from being a Chad but I was thinking about how many women I have been with yesterday, I came up with about 20-25. Never married, no kids, have a good life, good job, extremely happy with myself.

I see so many young guys here so eager to be better at game, lose their virginity, become better at escalation, etc. I don't know if it is because I am getting older but what I notice right now is that my motivation to put myself out there is very little and it has nothing to do with being bitter, jaded, etc.

At some point, a lot of you younger guys will realize that after you deal with many women, women and sex are not really a big deal anymore, right now my position is neutral.

Maybe when I was 18, 19, women and sex were like my top 3 priorities in life, right now it is not even one of the top 10. My point is, the older you get and the wiser you get, the less women will be a "big deal" or a priority in your life.