Not gay but having struggle pursuing women

GuerrillerodeFark · 2018-08-31T16:17:57+00:00

Sorry if this is controversial, and I’m sure there are downvotes incoming, but the number of times in this post you said you’re not gay, along with giving reasons why you’re not, leads me to believe that you may in fact be, and are unable to accept it, admit it, or come to grips with it. I just want to say if you are, there is NOTHING wrong with that. Just be yourself, and never be scared to live honestly. Or maybe you just have a low sex drive.

One_Insanity · 2018-08-31T11:37:56+00:00

which porn may be my problem

It is. End of conversation. Time to quit porn and stop choking the chicken.

herculesuprising · 2018-08-31T06:00:03+00:00

Sounds like you were having what you wanted but gave it up, and you're still dealing with this.

hunterpua · 2018-08-31T19:53:47+00:00

If the social consequences are your guy friends bashing you for not chasing tail then they really aren't the kind of friends you want to have.

Its a very attractive thing to be a guy who is all good even without a girl and you seem to have your priorities straight because you gave up a hot girl for your career dreams.

Women love guys that are hard to win over and conversely they hate guys that so eagerly chase tail because those guys are a piece of cake to win over. If you put other things before women then you always give them something to compete against for your attention, making them work harder to get it.

We value that which we work hard for.

All you're missing really is flirting with women. Don't do it because you're trying to fuck because then you'll just be another guy chasing tail, just do it for the sake of seeing them go crazy. Since your priorities are on straight, you will already embody the behaviors that an attractive guy has. That could explain the hot ex girlfriend.

WhereTruthLies · 2018-08-31T06:55:50+00:00

Just because you're a dude doesnt mean you're some sex crazy fiend. Some are some aren't. Don't worry so much. You also kinda sound like you're not over the girl still.

ynwa_glastobater · 2018-08-31T09:05:57+00:00

I’m exactly the same. When I see most hot girls I think yeah they are alrite, but sometimes il meet a girl like I just have and instantly have strong feelings towards her, it doesn’t happen often though. It’s like love at first sight (no homo)

Title	Not gay but having struggle pursuing women
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Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	August 31, 2018 5:46 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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