How can you tell if there's initial attraction when you speak to a girl?

tehij1 · 2017-12-01T21:18:23+00:00

I feel like basically every IOI you can imagine fits your question. Her asking questions for example is a pretty obvious sign that she is indeed interested. Try not to overthink this matter and good luck out there :)

ImJustSo · 2017-12-01T21:56:57+00:00

Often it's more about what isn't there that's an indicator of how attracted she is to you.

The safest way is to think of all the things women have done that shows you they absolutely didn't like you. Won't look at you, won't talk to you, won't agree to anything you say, won't ask you shit, won't answer you, won't stop bitching at you, etc. The list goes on and it's easy to tell when a woman doesn't like you.

I always ask myself, "Does this woman dislike me?" If I think the answer is no, then I assume I'm somewhat attractive to her.

After that, it doesn't matter. You may or may not succeed at any goals you have for this woman, but that's not a big deal either. She can be married or whatever and you just weren't going to succeed anyways. That doesn't mean she wasn't attracted to you though.

You'll fail out a lot with women who are attracted to you even. So you just look for the signs of women not being interested, if that's not present, then assume attracted.

Now then, there's going to be various degrees with women that are into you. Some women I see everyday at work and they blush every single time. If I talk to them, they giggle constantly. I know what they think.

Another woman doesn't act like that, but she stares into my eyes the entire time she passes by and she greets me first. I know what that means too, she's a bad bitch. She still wants what the blushing girls want!

The preschool teacher wants no part in what I have. She won't look at me. She barely responds to greetings. She is entirely frigid towards me. I know without a doubt that she does not find me attractive. Lol

tony18215 · 2017-12-01T22:35:47+00:00

I don't think you can. Women are unusual creatures, and have deluded the greatest minds for centuries. I bet even Jesus would confirm this.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-12-02T01:37:58+00:00

You are talking about IOIs. Period.

And the better answer to your question is, that there are no IOD (indicators of disinterest). If she is there, still talking to you, not making weird faces, acting uncomfortable, you keep on going.

abstractpickupartist · 2017-12-02T04:47:05+00:00

I'm not talking about IOI's

Yes, you are. What do you think that means?

Title	How can you tell if there's initial attraction when you speak to a girl?
Author	Zoidberg22
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Date	December 1, 2017 8:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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