Can you finesse your way into a relationship

peakymann · 2019-03-11T13:09:50+00:00

What is your culture?

guimafelipe · 2019-03-11T13:17:46+00:00

Well, you can just tell her you want to be official

PuroPincheGains · 2019-03-11T15:25:56+00:00

Are dates not common in your culture? In my culture, it would be pretty difficult to be official with someone without ever having gone on a date. I don't know your culture, but I'd say this is more of a you problem. Being someone's boyfriend without spending time together doing fun stuff (a date) and without asking? That's nonsense in any culture. You can finesse your way into a bad relationship that ends in heartbreak. If you want the real deal, you need to be open to the idea of hanging out with this girl that you like, and you need to speak up and ask her out.

RedundantFlesh · 2019-03-11T16:25:25+00:00

All relationships I’ve been in have never been because I asked the girl out. We’d see eachother for weeks and at some point it was like: “Soo... what are we? Are we Boyfriend and Girlfriend?” Etc. But it always happened cus I was always sure of it. Like when you know that you’re both interested in eachother Blablabla. So yea man finessing IMO is the best way because you’re going with the flow and not necessarily only looking at it because you want a relationship with this girl but because it just fits :) wish you luck Brother!

Title	Can you finesse your way into a relationship
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Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	March 11, 2019 12:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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