I know that seddit thinks cinema dates are generally a bad idea, however this girl has specifically told me that she really likes going to the cinema and also that she really wants to see the new x-men movie. So I figured it would be a good way to ask her out.

I also realise that a cinema is a shit place to get to know someone due to the fact you have to be quiet. So I thought since the cinema is in the town centre and we both live outside of said town centre, I could ask her to meet me for coffee or something like that before the film and get plenty of chatting etc in then. Is this a good idea or should I just sack the whole cinema thing all together and come up with something else?

Also as a side note this is a girl I met in college who I've had a few exchanges with but never escalated or shown explicitly that I'm interested in her. If we were to go on a date how could I show from the off that I don't want to be friends?