Im looking for a girlfriend. Should i ditch clubbing?

brianbria · 2017-08-24T07:30:02+00:00

You don't have to ditch clubbing.

If you're just getting makeouts and not sex, it means your game sucks. Hate to be the one to tell you. You're either a shit closer or you don't know how to hold tension. Try going a month without kissing any girls and instead pulling girls to your place instead of kissing. I've made out with a lot of girls, it feels good and seems like progress but it's worth nothing and you seem to know that too. So stop doing it. Hold the tension, hold her eyes and instead pull her home, don't makeout. When you makeout, the girls enjoys it, you enjoy it, the girl feels like "I don't wanna be a slut at least I have a fun story to tell" makeouts are fun for girls, and they can be addicting to pua's, but makeouts in clubs are not sex and often don't lead to sex.

Realise if you want a girlfriend you need to be fucking the same girls regularly, so you can choose the one you want to be in a relationship. If you're fucking girls regularly there's a good chance some of them will want a relationship and may even ask you directly for it, or try to make it exclusive.

In order to do that you first need to be good in bed and make girls feel good so they come back for more. Otherwise you'll just have one night stands and girls will ignore your calls.

In order to get a fuckbuddy thing going though you need to have the girl at least once.

And in order to fuck a girl at least once, clubbing can help you meet a girl or any other place.

So clubbing is ok, it's a starting point. Just get good at sex and try to fuck the girls while they're not completely drunk, so they remember how good you were the next day, then they may call you over again and again, then you become fuck buddies, and at some point one of you or both will develop emotions and a relationship will spring up.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-08-24T03:47:25+00:00

Perhaps you need to change your clubbing strategy. Forget about escalating, making out, and going for the F-close so soon.

Try being a bit slower and more measured in your approaches, and you will end up with women who are more interested in something other than just a dick for the night.

thezond · 2017-08-24T03:52:00+00:00

In generally girls you meet at the club will result in a miss. Really hard to get to know if you share same views interests etc which is massive criteria to start a successful relationship.

Friend of a friend is he perfect way to find a gf as your first date she already trusts more than say tinder etc because her friend does and that goes a long way to kicking things off.

Not saying you can't meet girls at club / tinder but you will have a better success rate if you speak to people you know and ask them to hook you up

Rawlsdeep · 2017-08-24T03:47:00+00:00

App based dating?

IntrovertSigma · 2017-08-24T05:51:16+00:00

Try day game, nice bars and interest / hobby groups like those you can find on meetups.com

Title	Im looking for a girlfriend. Should i ditch clubbing?
Author	Blueeyesboi
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	August 24, 2017 3:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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