Demystifying The Kiss

frogma · 2011-08-26T23:14:15+00:00

This is exactly what I do, word-for-word.

And it's easy as fuck to do. Get close to the girl. If she doesn't back away, there's a decent chance she wants to kiss you. Look at her eyes- if she's giving you a "cute" look or doing some triangle-gazing, just go in for the kiss. That's it.

No lines should ever be used. I hate Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?" thing because it's completely pointless. If she says yes, you should've already kissed her. If she says maybe, you should've already kissed her. If she says no, you still should've already fuckin kissed her.

RedPosterboard · 2011-08-26T18:13:50+00:00

LOL, I spend my Friday night sitting at home and writing up a post on my upcoming workshop on direct day game in Copenhagen. My first one, so looking forward to that!

It's getting very late where I am, just wanted to share this article on demystifying the kiss. I like Aaron Sleazy's idea about the 'mutual hand caressing' as it leads up to the kiss and will try it out on my next dates.

2011-08-26T23:45:36+00:00

Good post! I think kiss closing is way more nerve wrecking than AA, and a big hurdle for guys with no experience with women!!

2011-08-27T04:05:27+00:00

I used "Do you want to kiss me" once. Worked like a charm. The key is whatever you do you can't ask it verbally and she what she says. You have to ask it like you already know the answer (which you should already know because you'd be most likely really close, touching her and looking into her eyes).

Ex: We were laying on the couch, her cuddled into me, just finished a deep conversation and she was getting so nervous and fidgety over my intense staring and close contact. I kept asking what was on her mind ;) and she'd hide under the covers or get really flustered. In a deep sexy voice I asked 'do you want to kiss me?' she was a deer in the headlights and I just pulled her in for it

DesignMyself · 2011-08-27T04:11:59+00:00

Absolutely!

If kino and eye contact have been right, then at most I've said, "Hey" or "Come here" before escalating to kissing a girl. I mean, we were talking but never had to talk about kissing.

From what I can tell, girls are really, really resistant to feeling like they've promised a guy anything. So, talking about a kiss doesn't seem to do anyone any favors.

Maaaaaybe, if you know the girl is interested but both of you have been short on kino, then talking about kissing could be a way to cut to the chase.

Title	Demystifying The Kiss
Author	RedPosterboard
Upvotes	14
Comments	9
Date	August 26, 2011 6:07 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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