I may be going out on a date tomorrow night (depending if I can get out of prior obligations) and I desperately need advice!

I'd like to go to a wine bar to get drinks, not too expensive.

SHOULD I PAY? I heard that I shouldn't. But this is a date, so I don't know what to do. If I don't pay, how do I break it to her that I'm not paying?

WHAT ELSE DO I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GOING ON A FIRST DATE???

I've been on several dates before, all of which have gone poorly because I didn't know how to make a real move. I'm nervous because getting girls in bars and clubs is way different than going on a date, right? Kinoing sitting across a table is different than at a bar, isn't it? Seriously, what do I need to know.

Help would be much appreciated.