How do I [17M] get over wanting a virgin girlfriend/wife?

Ragondux · 2017-09-15T18:50:47+00:00

I feel that you will remember your first time and your first partner/SO

I don't remember my first time. I just know it wasn't awesome, I've had much better times since them. I remember some of the good times.

A non-virgin to me sounds like a used car.

Maybe you can try to focus on the fact that a virgin will not know what she's doing. So it's more likely that your first time sucks.

she will compare you to her ex(s).

She probably had better, but she also had worse.

The general idea is: no matter who you sleep with, your first time is going to be awkward and suboptimal. Don't worry too much. It's not going to be perfect but it's going to be your first time anyway, with a virgin or not. But personally, I would rather have a first time with a woman who know what she's doing than with someone as anxious as I am.

dukecitycharles · 2017-09-16T16:05:13+00:00

Have sex with a stripper and see if you still want a virgin.

iBelgium · 2017-09-15T18:57:09+00:00

It's not impossible to find a virgin, but a lot depends on the type of girl you are looking for. Most club girls are rather promiscuous and have sex on a younger age and won't wait for a long lasting relationship to finally have sex.

I'm more attracted to the princess type girls. They aren't as easy as the club girls and take a lot more time before they trust you or even consider to have sex with you, but that also means chances are high they are still a virgin.

Also I understand that you want your first time to be special, but sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. It's about loving each other, so if somebody loves you, your first time will be special no matter if they are a virgin or not.

DrBalance · 2017-09-16T13:00:46+00:00

Why would you want a virgin?? They'd lie there like a dead starfish.

Bakercat09 · 2017-09-16T18:58:03+00:00

Consider every guy that she's slept with is all practice just for you

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-16T21:50:34+00:00

You're just afraid of disease. Most women who aren't 50+ guy sluts won't have anything dangerous in their crotches.

sorry_mommy · 2017-09-15T18:52:15+00:00

Read TRP.

GameAndGains · 2017-09-15T19:02:32+00:00

If you wanted to fuck a virgin you should of started gaming at 12 years old. Your a couple years late lol. Maybe like 5% of the girls your age are virgins still and they are virgins because they are weird/ugly or religious. Even if they are virgins they have given a lot of blowjobs and gotten fucked in the ass regularly. Good luck finding a virgin, especially if you go off to uni. You have like a 0.001% chance of making this fantasy of yours happen. Especially if your 17 and still a virgin means you have no game, so that's going to make it even harder for you.

You will remember your first time no matter who it is with.

It sounds like you want the girl to remember you as her first time.

Title	How do I [17M] get over wanting a virgin girlfriend/wife?
Author	noxperience
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	September 15, 2017 6:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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