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[–]KinkyxPants 66 points67 points68 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
woah telling us you love us? this must be a shit test!! uh uh I must neg now... just kidding, love you too brother. The people on here really do care and it makes the whole learning experience so much better.
[–]CS192837465 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
What is this?
[–]No_Disputin_Rasputin18 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I really love the good cop bad cop style support you see in here some times. For example I've given field reports that haven't been super stunning and someone will ream my ass for it and then someone will offer words of encouragement, but both comments are trying to do the same thing, to help me.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I also love your username.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, there are some toxic communities on reddit, and then this? It's awesome. Inspires hope. Thanks guys.
[–]UndidIridium 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not only "hope." It teaches how to actually stand back up when you are knocked down in the mud.
[–]AlienAstronaut 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chumbawumba baby
[–]AlienAstronaut 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Certainly is! Occasionally I'll come across something that's a little more red pill than I enjoy, and while I think it's something that's not right, I like to believe those people are still learning.
I think when men have faced failure early on and often, it can create bitterness and hate, and reduce women/men to a piece of meat. When instead through honesty and true self love you can enjoy new people and enjoy the new relationships/ fun times it brings.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah like the redpill. I'm definitely getting better vibes from this place.
[–]1vibe 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love you too, baby!
Such good vibes!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
the need to be wanted.
I think it's the need to be important.
Maybe so! When I said that I was feeling more along the lines of "being the prize" or simply that your value shines and people take note.
Obviously, craving attention for the sake of attention is a no no, but like you said, being important is a great feeling.
Pfft, who doesn't? /negging
[–]rangamatchstick -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Look im all for your compliment of the community, its true the people here generaly want to help...but the "need to be wanted" as a crave you should attain it in due process from becoming more and more attractive.
[–]AlienAstronaut 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm with you on that, it's not a permanent state of mind nor was I implying it's something everyone has all of the time.
[–]rangamatchstick 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok good, just checking, good luck with your endeavors, pickup and self development was one of the best things I have ever done (dated about 50 girls in a year and a half, king of the club haha, have a girlfriend now, had two friends with benefits at once, massively increased social circle, ect)
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