To begin, I'm pretty much fearless when it comes to talking to women, or anyone in college for that matter. Usually after I talk to one person at the beginning of the day then I'm "socially energized" thereafter. Here's the thing though, I'm apprehensive about escalating with girls in class and in my dorm, because I dread getting a negative reputation like being a creep- I could be rationalizing but I'm not sure. I'm pretty socially competent (hobbies, friends, high school varsity athlete if that means anything), but I'm not too experienced with gaming and women. I go to a big school so I'm not sure if this is a rational belief. If this is something to watch out for, then how I should go about gaming/escalating with women??

Oh and FYI- I don't like to go to bars or "party hard" because I don't drink... I like to do other things on my free time that I find more enjoyable.