Over the weekend I managed to attract this girl. In short, I felt confident, I felt good and I was having fun especially pushing things forwards with the girl.  She initiated most of the sexual tension, by giving massages, biting my shoulder and sleeping tightly (no spooning) through the night. The next night she made out with me twice, and that was really awesome. I left thinking I could bring the sexual tension to the next level the next week.

so here is how things went this week.

I arrived at the location and she doesn't get home until a couple hours after im there, so my mood was diminished I suppose. I forgot my purpose, or it was put on the back burner. When she got home I just kind of retreated into my head, and didn't say much. The main thing is the competition is really high, since its 1 girl and 4 other guys there which makes things extremely difficult for me. I'm the only one with pua knowledge though of the 4. So as the night goes on, there's no real playful chatter or touching between us, and I feel things just wont work out at all. What happened to the previous week? Do girls just live in the moment and forget about what ever happened before?  I ended up becoming extremely disinterested in her, and even when she attempted to rub my hair etc I just told her not to, and commented on how she was a very touchy person which there was nothing wrong about. I feel I came across as bitter most of the time with her. How can i just remove that bitterness, and expectation that she owes me something? I realize a lot of it is my selfishness, and desperation (virgin) but I didn't let any of those characteristics leak through, so I'm not sure what it was. I just stopped attracting her somehow.

Are there any ways I can manage to attract her again? Have i infinitely choded myself out with her? I don't feel I have, even though its possible.

feel that the first time when we slept together was the best chance for me to get to sex, but the problem was that there were other people on the same bed, but she was directing all her focus on me the whole night. If we had privacy it would of been good.