Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noob

katalis · 2016-06-01T16:21:28+00:00

1) Please dude. Idk why if It's because of the condition you have that you described in another post, but please, format. Your post is difficult to read.

2) When they ask you things like "how old are you?", bounce the question back at them. You could either say "Take a guess" with a playful smile or "I bet im too Young/old (depends on the girl) for you" in a playful tonality. If you ask before than her, and she tells you her age, you can answer back by saying the same ("im too old/Young for you" being playful). That is a way of qualifying yourself but not in a bad way. It's like saying she is the one who causes trouble and you are the one with value. Remember that what matters is how you say it, like playful tonality and smiling.

3) The girl that punched you was not actually "rejecting" you. She was testing you. One of those "shit test ("I'm not interested in a relationship"). Well, no one is usually interested in a relationship all the time, it is not something you can force to happen. But that doesn't mean we are closed to know and meet new people. When she punched you she was initiating a slight and non-sexual physical contact. That denotes interest. Your reaction in those cases could be on the lines of "hey hey, i don't know you that much yet, you are rushing things too much" and laugh or smile. That's how you could pass the test for example. Or something like "Neither do I, at least with someone I don't know well yet".

3) If you stop people, at least in the beginning of your Journey, don't jump right away into telling them "hey you are cute". Sometimes, if they seem in a rush or something, It's better to tell them "Hey, mind telling you a very random thing? I think you blablabla". This is for not making them be scared or anything. Specially if you approach from behind or the side. If they see you coming before you open your mouth, is better.

4) Smile. A truthful smile. It's important to appear as non threating and is a powerful tool at your disposal.

5) In your next FR try to describe your body language and theirs if you notice, the voice tones, and how the interaction flows.

Edit: 6) Try to not be so direct in an environment like the campus if you approach so many girls at once. It's much better to use indirect approachs, so you don't get a bad reputation as a "Player" or "desperate".

Dadoma · 2016-06-01T12:54:26+00:00

I like that you have the balls to be direct af, but doing something like that in an university where you study isn't the smartest thing to do since you could get a bad reputation. You clearly aren't afraid to approach, take 10 mins to talk to a girl and build some minor rapport before going for the number, your success rate will be higher. Cheers!

Title	Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noob
Author	Footnob
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	June 1, 2016 7:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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