Ok so let me try to be brief. I'm visiting a city where it should be shooting fish in a barrel. I usually look for quality over quantity. But right now I just need some strange. Not for a confidence boost or anything, I just want to get it in, as douchey as that may sound. I've been told I'm a good looking guy, and I feel I get great iois when approaching and initiating the conversation. About 3 minutes into the convo, I lose them. I don't know why. Maybe I don't show enough sexual energy. Maybe I don't come in with enough energy. But I really can't figure it out. 3 situations tonight where I know from studying of social dynamics, that these girls were into me. I feel like I lose them. I feel like I know what type of girls are dtf on the first night. But maybe they are few and far in between. Are there any tell tale signs that a girl is good to go? What sort of things can I say to up the sexual energy to not be overly forward, but still show that I am down for a 1 nighter? I'm in Nashville with a bachelor party and I cannot tell you how many drunk gorgeous girls there are around. I feel like 5% of them would rock my world but I'm totally failing. I wanna Don Juan the shit out of them. I feel like I'm coming off as boring, but I know I'm way more interesting and fun than I'm putting out there. What do I need to do differently?

Edit: so after sleeping and self reflecting here's what I came up with. I open the set with great energy, I just fall inline after that. Asking boring questions, answering with boring answers. I need to be more witty with my responses and not be as much of a goof ball. I also haven't teased a lot or gone kino as much as I should. I probably come off as fun party guy with boring answers.

Edit 2: also, I think my voice sucks. I'm a big guy and when I open my mouth I sound kind of nasally. I think I need to speak from my diaphragm more.