If she looks pretty cute, but you’re not sure about the ‘whole package’, and you want to be sure, what kinds of things do you ask? Let’s just say that in person my date last night exceeded my predictions.

Do you ask for more or full body pics to confirm physical appearance? And why do I already sense that males doing that will get criticism, but women asking for multiple pics (as they have me) is approved vetting.

I’m not proud about how I handled and managed my first actual T date. But I did it for science. The social app experience is about meeting new people and practicing that craft as a survival tool. Now I want to know how to be more selective going forward and improve.