I cannot stress this enough. There's the one gorgeous girl i've been talking to, and until yesterday, I didn't think that she was all that into me... then we hung out and got to talking and she ends up telling me that she's been super interested in me for about a month now and I really wasn't ever sure if she was all this time.

Even if you assume attraction and she isn't into you, the idea of rejection becomes much less heart felt... to the girl it insinuates the idea that you've never really been turned down before and it's a strange occurrence for you.

Basically, girls are nervous as shit like 90% of the time when it comes to initiating conversation with guys. Don't get all worked up with your anxieties and just talk to her. If you're someone like myself who has absolutely no problem starting conversation with guys, but always feels a bit of approach anxiety with females, combat those feelings and pretend like every person you talk to is a guy for the first few minutes. sounds crazy, but trust me, it works.

Better yet, you will find it much easier to talk to females you are sexually interested in if you just start talking to EVERYONE. ALL THE TIME. Not only will it aid on easing your way into talking with them HB9's & 10's, you will add so much more substance and fun into your life if you become over indulgent in the people you allow yourself to come into contact with.

cheers, and happy fishing.

-MAXXMA