So...Erika Awakening, the so called female pickup coach, is...ummm...FUCKING INSANE!

rmbarnes · 2010-01-01T17:09:00+00:00

What I'm holding out for is a guy who's willing to go all the way with me. That means no condoms, no pulling out, no BS. An intention of continuity. If I get pregnant, so be it. It's not going to happen unless it's meant to happen.

This is why there's unlikely to many good female PUAs. Male PUAs know it's all about psychology, but women have to put some kind of mystic almost spiritual spin on pickup, they just can't help themselves.

She'll only get pregnant if it's meant to happen? WTF does that mean? Getting pregnant isn't predetermined by fate.

Sunupu · 2010-01-02T00:16:43+00:00

I was with her with in the beginning the no condom thing, because she was referring to relationships (not one night stands). It is about intimacy, and condoms do block that.

Then, of course, she condemned pulling out and refused to mention any other forms of birth control. "If I get pregnant, it's meant to happen."? Intimacy is more than a way to make people, and she should know it more than anyone else.

Wintamint · 2010-01-01T21:53:46+00:00

First, and most obviously, condoms help prevent STDs, like AIDS, so this lady is actually harming humanity with her nonsense. Moving on...

She's trying to make an interesting point, I think, but is too stupid to get there. I will make the argument for her, Devil's advocate style. From an evolutionary perspective, a condom is not advantageous to a woman's survival in cases of consensual sex.

In a sexual encounter, men are looking for sex, and women are looking for resources, to take care of them and their offspring. If they don't have offspring, they can't lock a guy and his resources down, so there is no point in sex.

I don't think anyone actually thinks like this, but it is how we are programed. Eventually, people who are prone to using pregnancy protection devices may be weeded out of our population. If you've ever seen Idiocracy, you know where this is heading. Thanks Crazy Erika for leading us swiftly towards our distopian future. Enjoy your herpes.

2010-01-02T00:18:53+00:00

Well, I'm not a big fan of condoms either, but what else are you going to do if you want to fuck a bunch of women you barely know, without pregnancy or stds? Even if a girl says she's on the pill that doesn't mean she doesn't have any stds (a lot of times people with stds don't even know it because they don't have any symptoms). You have to look out for no. 1, and getting an STD or fathering a bastard child would definitely make life mote complicated.

But I think she does have a valid point when she talks about no holds barred, sans-condom coitus. It definitely adds a new dimension of intimacy to sex, but the only way I'd do that is if I was with a girl that I really cared about, and there was already a real connection, not just physical attraction.

strafefire · 2010-01-01T16:32:06+00:00

Part 1 here:

http://awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com/2009/07/erikas-why-i-dont-like-condoms-speech.html

First time going to her site and it will be my last time going to her site.

Horatio__Caine · 2010-01-02T05:12:52+00:00

That's actually not that insane. She's being abstinent rather than using condoms.

I don't agree with her, but this is hardly "FUCKING INSANE"

Title	So...Erika Awakening, the so called female pickup coach, is...ummm...FUCKING INSANE!
Author	strafefire
Upvotes	10
Comments	11
Date	January 1, 2010 4:31 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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