I'm sure you guys come up against this one all of the time. It isn't a shit test, more of a hoop a girl puts up for you to jump through in order to gain your compliance. She needs to be jumping through my hoops, not visa versa.

It goes something like this:

Me: "So where are you from" Her: "You have to guess"

Me: "Tell me, how old are you" Her: "Guess. HeHe"

What are your counters to this to prevent you jumping through the hoops like good little puppies? Or even better to reframe the situation to make her jump through one of your hoops.

For the age one, all I've got is, "Nooooo. That's a dangerous game and I'm not playing it. Last time I guessed a girls name I was way of and she wasn't best pleased".

The where are you from one: I'll guess something that's obviously waaaay off base. Like say she's obviously Eastern European (I live in London, a lot of the girls here are from Eastern Europe), I'll look her up and down, and say, "Hmmmmm... China!"

I don't think these are great, any advice seddit?