So I was out sarging the other day with a wing. After I come back to him from a set he is on the phone to his sister. Turns out she is trying to set him up with a girl she knows, and she wants him to travel 30 mins to the bar where she is to meet this girl.

My wing asks me of we should stay or go, I say I'd prefer to say. A coin is flipped and it says we stay. He then gets texts from his sister insisting he go. He invites me, but I chose to meet another wing across town for some sarging instead.

In retrospect, I think it would be better for him to insist that, if this girls wants to meet him, then her and her sister could come to the bar we were at. He had planned to spend all night sarging with me in the area we were, so why change his plans for a girl he hadn't met yet? There are plenty of girls where we were that he could chat to and had a good chance with (in theory).

I just think telling his sister to come to where we were or it wasn't going to happen would be creating the correct frame (he is the prize, the girl is competing for his time / attention). Is this taking it too far?