Contempt to affection

2010-08-05T05:33:41+00:00

we all have that one girl who hates our guts

Can't think of one. Am I dense?

Anonymousislegion · 2010-08-05T05:16:21+00:00

Not that this will help your question or anything but I find this interesting. I remember this girl long time ago (I don't see her anymore/lost contact) who hated me. She keeps telling her friends that she hates me, would like to do random violent things with me. But when I look at her in the eye she blushes. When I touch her she blushes. She always angrily walks off. I just tease her with "It must be that time of month again." I figured after learning this stuff, I think she likes me... yeah I was dense. She even said "You're so dense" LOL

Maybe that girl that hates you, actually likes you?

Sublomino · 2010-08-05T08:27:44+00:00

Why bother? Why do you want to fuck someone who hates your guts? That's kind of masochistic. Be glad that you're not fucking her. You could get married to her and spend the rest of your miserable fucking life with someone who hates your guts. What a fucking waste of time!

joforedditin · 2010-08-05T21:36:18+00:00

If you're sure this chick has true contempt for you, you have zero chance. Contempt is one of the most difficult negative emotions to get past. You can be a disgusting slob and make a comeback. You can piss a chick off so bad she wants your balls in a jar and make a comeback. But once she has contempt for you, stick a fork in your ass 'cause you're done.

There have been studies (sorry, no citations) where newlyweds were interviewed together and separately. They were monitored for micro-expressions of contempt. After a few years, almost all of the marriages where at least one spouse showed contempt in regards to their spouse had ended in divorce.

Don't waste your time.

niltermini · 2010-08-07T03:48:27+00:00

Get real with her for a second and give her a not so beta apology. Try qualifying all the reasons you respect her and once you think you have a real moment with her, transition with something random or funny and soon after get the fuck out of there. Give her time. Make small connections every once in a while. Slowly take back the situation

redrobot5050 · 2010-08-05T20:38:41+00:00

Trying to bang her is a waste of time. Bang her best friend, her sister, her roommate, and hopefully her boss. Have everyone around her singing your bedroom praises to the point where she will never have alpha or beta status amongst her peers.

Then she is nothing but...(puts on sunglasses)....yesterday's news.

Title	Contempt to affection
Author	Anonymousislegion
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	August 5, 2010 5:05 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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