My friends are reluctant to invite me to dorm parties because I'm not good at sarging.

ryno55 · 2010-10-09T19:26:13+00:00

Your friends suck, go make new ones.

2010-10-10T19:46:01+00:00

Correction: Your friends are reluctant to invite you to dorm parties because you are a shitty wingman and you affect their chances with women. Sorry to be so frank, but that's the real reason.

Close · 2010-10-09T08:33:45+00:00

This seems counterintuitive to me. If I were throwing a party, I'd only invite hot girls and AFCs. The AFCs would supply the booze and the compliments for the girls, whom I would then sarge.

Why would anyone invite AMOGs to their party?

gentlemanofleisure · 2010-10-09T07:38:49+00:00

in the same way that everyone likes to play poker with someone who can't play well, guys like to hang out with guys who wont steal chicks from them.

why do they care if you get laid or not? tell them to get out of your business.

party to have a good time. just talk to people as people, don't worry what sex parts they're packing. being comfortable around guys makes you more attractive to the girls and makes you more comfortable in the room. just focus on having fun.

after a little while you'll find yourself being more comfortable around girls simply because you're experienced.

when you find yourself talking to a girl and thinking 'wow she's really...' then go for it.

2010-10-09T09:19:26+00:00

Do they have any pre-drinks before heading out? Turn up with a 6-pack and drink with them before they head out. They'll invite you along for sure.

2010-10-09T12:38:47+00:00

Mate, right, do you hang out with these friends normally? Can you keep a decent enough convo with them? If you can, you're just awkward around girls/strangers because you're nervous, and your friends doing shit like this isn't gonna help. That being said, a nervous vibe can bring down a party. Just go to small gatherings, with it mostly being your friends and one or two girls, and just try to talk to them like normal people, don't pay them any particular attention. Do this for a bit and you'll realize how easy it is to be not nervous, and how much better people respond. And make sure you keep all this pua crap out of your head while doing it, it can really make you second-guess yourself in-field.

marcojuana · 2010-10-21T13:56:08+00:00

Catholic girls are easy.

Title	My friends are reluctant to invite me to dorm parties because I'm not good at sarging.
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Date	October 9, 2010 5:43 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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