Today is my last day.. Reddit you are my only hope

2010-10-09T17:07:49+00:00

Have a go, but don't sweat it if it doesn't work out.

AngledLuffa · 2010-10-09T16:56:33+00:00

Invite her to do something simple and fun with you after class. If her friends are there, invite all of them. Maybe you can come up with something, or you can suggest getting something to eat if class ends at 5, etc.

If by some chance, one or more of her friends go along but she doesn't, then ask her directly "You and I should hang out sometime, then. Let's exchange numbers." Say something directly to her or maybe to the whole group regarding exchanging contact info if no one goes along with you.

2010-10-09T18:43:11+00:00

Dude it's super simple since the class is ending today.

-Hey, class is ending today. Why don't you give me your number and I'll call you to have a beer sometimes?

dreamersblues · 2010-10-09T18:44:56+00:00

She probably thinks you're hotter than you think you are. She may think you're way way hotter than you think you are.

Whereever you're actually going to go after class, you should make her day by saying, "Hey I'm about to pick up some food. You should come with me now that class is over so we can hang out."

She'll say cool and you'll be off.

icedTUSSIN · 2010-10-09T17:10:43+00:00

As long as you're comfortable with you, the worst thing she can do to you is say no.

Ask her what she does for fun outside of class, then ask when you get the opportunity to tag along.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-10-09T17:56:10+00:00

In situations like this, you should try to do other things outside of class, even if it's just going to the soda machine. That way you stop being "that guy I took the class with," and you become "the guy I've been hanging around with."

But it's not too late, start doing that now.

turtlecloud · 2010-10-09T19:48:52+00:00

You only regret the things you dont do. Just go for it and if it ends bad, then whatever. You gave it a go and prob will never see her again.

SortaBeta · 2010-10-09T23:21:06+00:00

If you haven't talked to her all year and just now coming up to her, it will make it feel "planned" or unnatural. It will have a off-feeling to it because your not displaying your usual behavior, and girls are a bitch when it comes to accepting anything foreign or alien.

-serious mode off

n99bJedi · 2010-10-10T03:55:07+00:00

Dont want that long. few weeks = long. start texting slowly, and then gain up on her. You have absolutely nothing to loose, but everything to gain ;)

vicaphit · 2010-10-09T19:06:50+00:00

Ask her if she wants to go to an "End of class celebration" dinner/drink (if you are of age).

erotic_sausage · 2010-10-09T19:25:21+00:00

Something along the lines of "Hey, its been a fun <how long the class took, 5 weeks, 3 months, whatever>, wanna go grab a cup of coffee later?"

or any variation of a really simple 'hey wanna do something later' type of question posted in the thread.

Don't sweat it man. You said it yourself - she wants you. Now you just provide her the opportunity to say yes to something the two of you are going to do. If her friends tag along, don't worry about it. The coffee then is just a set up for a drink later, or her number, or whatever. Just whatever you do - don't sweat it.

ryno55 · 2010-10-09T19:31:22+00:00

Have something fun to do together in mind before you go to class, then start talking to her and ask her out. Don't over think it or you might mumble stutter or fuck up. If her friends are around, stay smooth and stick to the plan. Who knows, the peer pressure might help you get a yes.

2010-10-09T21:08:34+00:00

"hey let's celebrate the last day of class and go get some double mocha Carmel lattes together :)"

or something equivalent, the trick is to do the instadate after class, then from there you say how it was fun hanging out and should do it again, in which case get her number.

sheeeep · 2010-10-09T22:43:18+00:00

After class/end of semester beers at your friends house?

2010-10-09T22:50:50+00:00

Just get her number, that's all you have to do

2010-10-12T00:04:32+00:00

In seduction, things generally work out better if you don't plan them in advance. I know it goes contrary to every other situation in life, but stop thinking and just do it.

In future you'd probably be more attractive to her if you made an effort to get to know her friends. Get them laughing and she'll lower her ASD, plus you'll become more attractive to her because you're showing you're a social, funny guy. (Substitute funny, as appropriate, with: interesting, outrageous or awesome, or a combination of all three for maximum effect.)

tl;dr Girls go for socially dominant guys, not the ones who avoid groups and wait around until the last day of class to make a move.

Good luck!

offshore_coppertop · 2010-10-10T04:53:19+00:00

I really enjoy a number close when there's a bodyguard around. It's a great exercise in understanding the human ego. And I love the challenge.

Best case scenario:

Engage all three ladies before class (this will allow you a convenient time constraint -- "gotta go, class is starting," and then "bump into them" again afterwards). Focus your attention on the "lesser attractive" of the two bodyguards -- this will send your target and her other bodyguard into a questioning mode: "Why is he paying attention to her instead of me?"

They are expecting all the guys to hit on the target HB, and that's why the bodyguards are there. You start sarging the "least attractive" woman in the set, and it throws them all off. Chat up the lesser attractive bodyguard and number close with her. This will incite jealousy towards her in both other women -- which causes the other bodyguard and the target to instinctively begin to demonstrate higher value themselves, as they are now competitors.

Congratulations. You have disassembled the bodyguard scenario. You number-closed with bodyguard one, who is now in your corner. Bodyguard Two and Target are now at odds with one another, as well as, with Bodyguard One. At this point, chat up Bodyguard Two, while throwing an occasional IOI to Target. After a few minutes of engagement, turn your attention to Target, asking a question that pertains to your conversation with Bodyguard Two -- "So, how do YOU feel about wicker vs. rattan as they relate to underwater basketweaving?" or whatever you're talking about. Now you've got the attention of the Target, and both bodyguards have been turned against her, since they're competing for your attention.

Hold the frame for only a few moments. Like ... she answers you, and ask her a question that relates to her answer, she clarifies as you pull your phone out and push some buttons (makes her think you're texting someone else, while you're really getting your phonebook out) and BANG you ask for her number.

Remember that you're in command, and you can use their own weaknesses to disassemble the social construct that they have built. Remove yourself from the situation and look at it objectively ... watch their reactions to the things that you do ... enjoy life ... build your experience ... keep a positive attitude ... don't get too excited.

You'll be fine.

Cheers!

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-10-10T00:30:14+00:00

You need to extract her from her entourage first.

If you propose to her under supervision, she'll be compelled to reject you just to fit in with her friends' standards.

Tell her you need to speak with her IN PRIVATE for a minute. If her friends butt in, repeat IN PRIVATE. This is something Americans respect.

Then take her to a corner and just propose. Tell her you want to hang out at your place or whatever. Then leave.

Title	Today is my last day.. Reddit you are my only hope
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Upvotes	27
Comments	31
Date	October 9, 2010 4:49 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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