Is it OK to stay in the game after finding LTR?

2010-11-09T13:38:17+00:00

if you're not ready to commit, don't. play the field a little while longer. it's not like in 5 or 10 years you're going to look back and say "oh crap! that was the love of my life and despite the 150 girls i've hooked up with since then, i'll never find another!"

honestly there are probably hundreds of thousands of "the one's" out there. that is to say, girls you'd be happy finally settling down with. do what you want, but don't feel pressured into a relationship just because you're afraid you won't find the same kind of connection with someone else. That's AFC.

jport · 2010-11-09T13:49:43+00:00

ask her...

rustoof · 2010-11-10T01:47:44+00:00

Always always play the game. If you stop you slip. Alphaness is maintained, not gained and possessed anymore then muscles are.

And honestly dude, just cheat on her. It's not unethical unless she finds out.

Also if she is spending a year in southern europe... you're an idiot if you think she stays faithful the whole time

ArMcK · 2010-11-20T16:54:19+00:00

I destroyed the best relationship of my life because I didn't come clean about staying in the game.

Either you stay in and tell her and if you're smooth, you include her-- not because you WILL get caught but because you are stand up and honest about who you are. . .or you don't get in a LTR with her. The thing is, she's got just as much anxiety as you do about life and romance. There's a 50/50 shot that she'll keep dating you regardless. If she says no, decide which is more important to you and stick to your decision, even if that decision is to continue openly and honestly gaming. . .she may be willing to change her official stance and date you anyway, or she may not and still date you anyway.

Also, you can totally keep working on learning how to be social without taking home all the hotties.

TL;DR: It's your life.

RedErin · 2010-11-09T16:03:19+00:00

So you're going to game girls, but not actually kiss or fuck them? It's only okay if you have permission.

MrRisky · 2010-11-10T00:53:01+00:00

I don't know any couples in college where one person did an exchange semester/year and wasn't unfaithful. Mostly girlfriends cheating, mostly in Europe.

Good luck, but a long distance relationship in college is not likely to succeed.

Title	Is it OK to stay in the game after finding LTR?
Author	kaitensarging
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	November 9, 2010 1:32 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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