I'm kinda new to seedit, and let me tell u guys , that you have been (and still are) a great help in letting my true self come out. I was in a ltr and broke up about 2 years ago, after that my luck hadnt been the best. After finding seddit i was able to read situations such as IOI's (now that i look back, damn did i miss out on a lot of opportunities). I went out on halloween and made out with 3 girls in the span of 2 days. Even tough what i had learned on seddit helped ( said fuck it for the first time and just went for the kiss) i contributed those victories to the sluttinness that was roaming in the air bc of halloween. I had not been able to to go out lately bc of various reasons until last week. I had a company dinner and after that, I ended up going to a club, i kept trying to get in state but my afc kicked in, i had a couple of conversations with girls but nothing major there. Finally i got tired and headed back home. While on my way back, I was very mad at myself for doing the same things old me would have done, so I decided to talk to this girl sitting on the metro. Conversation went great until a amog that happened to work in my company just interrupted us out of nowhere and took the lead of the conversation. No matter how much i tried i could not regain attention, i just froze ( i think i blamed this on the fact that both the hb and amog where older than me, i am 23 and they seemed more like 28+). So it was our stop, hb and amog walk togheter and im left all there by myself even angrier/dissapointed than before. Just as i was exiting the metro station i see a hb7 walking out the same way ( I thought to myself 3 second rule, dont blow it) I didnt knew exactly what to say so i commented on the weather and why everything was so wet. I know its a stupid opener but hey, i had 3 seconds to say something. We had a brief convo about the weather and then i told her something about how this weather was perfect for cuddling and watching movies (so she could picture us together maybe?), then I did the "slow the walking speed thing" to she if she responded to my speed change (just to see if she was interested). Then i told her Me - I'm sorry i usually don't talk to strangers and especially at night, should i be worried about you? I have read that you white girls are crazy! ( a latino guy scared of a white girl at night, thats a new one :P, maybe this helped with the bitch shield? )

Her- Hahahahaha, I would be worried if I where you

Me- I wouldnt want to appear in the frontpage of the vienna times, you know, I am a white belt in karate...

We joked around for a bit, talked about what we do for a living and what we did that night (company dinner, huughe DHV) and then she told me that she was coming back from a first date. I started teasing her on how awkward and boring it must have been and on how it probably was all her fault, she assured me it was the guys fault the date had sucked. We made it to the point where we had to split ways so i asked her for her number. As soon as i got home i sent her a txt.

Me- Im soo happy u didnt stab me ;)

Her- Consider urself lucky! Me- If by lucky u mean incredibly sexy, then yes i am! Did u manage to make it home without killing som1?

Her- Of course thats what i meant & of course i made it home. One or two dead bodies, but thats the way things go. ;) Me- Im happy to hear you made it home but i dunno if we can be friends anymore tho, i have seen it way too many times on tv, the latino aaalways gets blamed for the killings, thats why u where being so nice.

Her- Yup , all part of the plan...

Me- hahahahah , u r such a dork! i'm kinda busy this week with a business trip but we should def get togheter, ill let you know. Good night

Her- sounds good , Night!! PS-- im not a dork! Nerd!!!

(guess what i called her next time i txted her today :P, going for drinks on thr, will try to post an update ) Sry if it was too long If any1 has any comments, tips or suggestions on how i handled it